Break up or am i jus being stupid?

my bf in da past msgd random girls on facebook , saying things like "daym fyne"


i gave him a second chance, he said he would never do it again


today in his delted box on hotmail. i saw 2 messages delted. It says he msged some girl on facbook sayin "hey", and then she replied "hey babe......"


he goes "have we met, u look so familar"


she goes "no we havnt, where u from sexii"


he replies "delta..blha blah


-should i be choked.


right now im so mad....i jus feel i cant trust him

Break up or am i jus being stupid?
Sounds like he's a player I would drop his *** to the curb.


If you forgive his mistakes over and over he'll see it won't matter what he does.





But, on the other hand.


You have to understand ALL people men and women flirt single or not.


It's just how we are.


And there is a difference in flirting and cheating.
Reply:first one. he doesn't respect you, and that is all you need. dump, dump, dump!
Reply:This is why you don't look for things you don't want to find.
Reply:If you feel like breaking up with him, then break up with him. There's trust issues there anyway. Why are you going into his account and checking his messages?





This could be a generational thing, or it could be just me. I personally wouldn't think anything of those kind of messages. They are just casual flirting. They may be in two completely different states. If not, they still might never meet. Unless plans were made to meet up, and I wasn't aware of it, what's the harm?
Reply:NEVER,,trust a man okay well, some of them....p.s...i am guessing but, probably both young just starting out in the dating scenes..good luck baby girl
Reply:Once a liar always a liar, I would not trust him...do the same to him and see what his reply is..if not you should break up with him coz if he's doing that online imagine what's he's doing when you're not around to girls who are infront of him..He's not to be trusted
Reply:You can trust him, a lot of people do that on websites for fun. It doesnt mean he likes someone else or he doesnt like you anymore. I do it every now and then but i still love my gf with all my heart. And if she broke up with me for something as small as that i would feel EXTREMELY sad with guilt. So i say don't break up with him, it is not that bad...
Reply:You obviously have some trust issues if you're going through his emails!!


I would be annoyed if I discovered something like this. I would also be annoyed if my partner went through my emails.


If you feel you can't trust him, either talk things through (find out the whole story) or get rid of him. He sounds like he's a bit of a player.