What does this mean when a guy does this?--Very confused!?

i met this perfect guy at a party last fri. we talked all night. i asked 4 his # and he took mine. he texted me sat night. i could not text-i didnt have messaging. i called sun afternoon and didnt get him. added him on facebook and he wrote, i wrote back-then nothing. texted him next night. he texted back immediatly, i replied, nothing. then i waited 3 days, called fri night b4 i went out...didnt get him. i thought that was it...then he poked me back on facbook the next day (i had poked him about a day ago). i texted him yesterday (since calling sux) saying if he wanted to have coffee sometime he should let me kno. what is he telling me??? he goes to a nearby college (we're both freshman) I;m bad a flirt and feel i havent done much w/ my little opportunity. he is british...is this what they do overthere? is it wrong to still think we'll get together? (im never forward with guys! always very shy...this is the first time i was forward)

What does this mean when a guy does this?--Very confused!?
the answer to his question..is yes i would love to.sounds like he is intrested and wants to get to know you better..good luck
Reply:There is nothing like European way of flirting and American way of flirting! Flirting is flirting!





I really don't understand why you consider calling him as such a bad move? That would be the best move you can do! Call him and ask him to join you and your friends for a cup of coffee or for a party. He won't say 'no' for sure!!! ...if he does, then throw the ball in his hands and tell him something like: Ok, no problem! Call me when you'll have a free time, maybe we could hang out together.





Stay cool!
Reply:does not sound so perfect to me.........but he may be very busy, so give it more time
Reply:OK,OK, it sounds to me like the two of you are on separate wavelengths here. You're on this "we exchange numbers, %26amp; we talk %26amp; text each other, %26amp; we meet for coffee, %26amp; we get serious" kind of wavelength, %26amp; he seems to be on, "Ok, I got your number, yeah, yeah, I'll get back to you, Yeah, meet for coffee, well maybe, 1st I gotta fit you in around all of the other chicks who I exchanged numbers with etc" kind of wavelength.





Keep putting yourself out there sweetie. It's kind of like fishing you know. You don't expect to catch a trophy the instant you drop a line in the water.
Reply:First off, don't start to assume the worst. He could be a really busy person. Just stay in contact with him and give him a call every once in awhile. I'm sure you'll finally be able to get a coffee with him. Just be patient.
Reply:Well personally I think he is just being a gentleman (have you not seen how they mock british about being to formal), well, I think that you should totally take the date, and if if dosn't work out, well tell him youre not interested (normally they understand) if youre too shy, just work out the plan as it goes along, and try to work it out (I missed a kiss just because of shyness :(





Hope I help
Reply:sounds like growing pains. keep your hopes high and expect the best.