What message is he trying to send to me? Is this going anywhere??

i met this perfect guy at a party last fri. we talked all night. i asked 4 his # and he took mine. he texted me sat night. i could not text-i didnt have messaging. i called sun afternoon and didnt get him. added him on facebook and he wrote, i wrote back-then nothing. texted him next night. he texted back immediatly, i replied, nothing. then i waited 3 days, called fri night b4 i went out...i actually though that he picked up and hung up on me! but there was no background noise when it picked up so i wasnt sure (happens to me on the subway) i thought he hated me but then he poked me back on facbook the next day (i had poked him about a day ago). i texted him yesterday (since calling sux) saying if he wanted to have coffee sometime he should let me kno. what is he telling me?? he goes to a nearby college (we're both freshman) I'm bad a flirt and feel i havent done much w/ my little opportunity. he is british...is this what they do overthere? is it wrong to still think well get together?

What message is he trying to send to me? Is this going anywhere??
until all communication stops, then there is still a chance. ask him what you told us, why sometimes when i holla back i get no response.
Reply:You know, certain people think that texting is a shy (let's say cheesy) way of communicating. If he is interested and avaialble he will likely call back.
Reply:I think that he isn't immediately texting you back because it gets boring after a while - some people don't text back because there is nothing to say. like if I texted my friend and said I love you babe and they texted back saying love ya too, I wouldn't text back cus there would be nothing to say.. except love you more which would then trigger an ongoing chain. Maybe it's just the context of what you said - I think that he is definitely interested in you and isn't tryiing to seem desperate and wants to be a little hard to get. Don't be so desperate and just do what he's doing, text him once in a while - I think he might also be doing it so that you think that he's a busy guy and has a lot of friends and stuff because if he always just texted you back it would almost be like he waited on the phone for you. As for facebook, who knows how often he checks it? Maybe he doesn't go on as frequently as you do (and facebook addicts for that matter) and just poked you or didn't really see it (I don't think you get those "notifications" for pokes cus I get them all the time!) The fact that he poked you either meant that he 'responded' to your poke or deliberately searched you up to poke you (if the poke was deleted).


basically I think you're overanalyzing it and just go with the flow :)
Reply:your fine, just keep doing what you are doing, it will all work out. No he is not playing with you. It appears very innocent
Reply:Didn't I just answer this same question a few minutes ago?


I always find it interesting that questions from girls asking about a guy who's giving them so much grief always starts out with "I met this perfect guy".





Is it that he's really so "perfect"? Or is it just the way you hope that he will be, %26amp; that's what is so disappointing?
Reply:don't bother with him he son's no good .
Reply:Do not act like you are desperate. You have made contact with him, so he should understand you are interested in seeing him again. Who knows why it takes time for him to get back to you. If he wants to see you, he will make the effort. Otherwise, do not waste your time on someone who is not sincere. You are an independent, whole person who does not have to chase and settle for any fellow, British or not.
Reply:He's playing with you or hes too busy for you. I would let him chase you as you have done enough for now.