Sunday, November 29, 2009

Might she actually like me?

I've always believed that if a girl likes you, she will definetely let u know. i met a girl about a year ago, during a trip to a football match, but our families were there so i couldnt speak to her. we definetely had some looks. after that, i again ran into her 2 more times, again in difficult circumstances , again with a lot of looks, but nothing more. finally in january i got her in facbook and spoke, decided to go on a concert with a group of four. during the trip, we got closer , she even slept on shoulder, and we were teasin a lot. then i was very stupid to tell her my feelings right away when we returned, and she told me not to expect anything like that from her. i was so dissapointed. last week i msgd her and asked if she's out, she calld me right away and we met, but were too shy to really speak. she left earlier, and when she got home she sent me a msg apologizing for not hanging out more with me. i dont wanna get rejected, but i really want her, what should i do???

Might she actually like me?
just keep hanging out with her, you seem like a decent bloke she must see it in you, you have to give her a reason to like you, take her out, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you, she must have some feeling for you, so if you continue to do nice things for her her feelings will grow, dont speak to her about anything too serious yet though, you dont wanna come on too strong, even though you like her, dont keep reminding her. Good luck mate.
Reply:Ask her out and try not to be so shy.
Reply:Well you cant force her to like you,try sending her roses something like that and dont call her for 2 days after, play hard to get girls like that and dont worry so much if it was meant to be it will be
Reply:I don't think you'll be rejected. Just suck it up and try not to be shy because shyness is not going to get you anywhere ok. Just call and tell her why you acted to the way you did and to give it another shot! But this time, it will be right. Have fun!
Reply:IDK
Reply:she could and its a possibility but chill and let her hang out with you on her own time. mak it show a little that you like her but let her come to you and if she is trying to find you a lot and tries to hang out with you and like follows you around and stuff, then she probably likes you.get to know her before you decide though.
Reply:Listen to me when I say this: Women like guys who play hard to get. Its just that simple. I know, everyone says, "I don't like playing those immature games" and what not, but the truth about people is, we always want what we cant have (or what we think we cant have). I have learned this lesson through experience and friends' experience. I think it is something that is hard-wired into us, we like the chase and i think guys do to, on some subconscious level.





Maybe you should distance yourself from her for a little while, make her wonder what you're doing and when she asks, just say you've been busy. This will make you seem like a very well-rounded person, and she'll wonder what you've been busy doing. As more and more time goes by, THEN you can open up SLOWLY about your feelings. Hope this helps.
Reply:Just ask her out and quite being so shy around her! Be a man!


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